Maggie Ndasi - Online Memorial Website

Hello Mummy
it's been 86 days,everyone is trying to to be fine.We Thank God for strengh 

''I am home in Heaven, dear ones Oh so Happy and so Bright. There is perfect joy and beauty In this everlasting light. All the pain and grief is over; Every restless tossing passed. I am now at peace forever, Safely home in Heaven at last. Did you wonder I so calmly Trod the valley of the shade ? Oh! but Jesus' love illumined. For I love you dearly still Try to look beyond earths shadows. Pray to trust our Father's Will. Anon''
knowing how God fearing and God loving you are, i am sure what Anon wrote many years back is for souls like yours.
Bayangi Man.

 

Hello mummy since Honorine called Eni and I to say that you fell in the bath room,which latter resulted to your death,i am scared to take morning calls. I know i have lost family members, but yours is the one i have refused to accept,22 days latters i am still very helpless. At the morgue, i thought touching you for abt 30 minutes would help.So with this particular case there is nothing like "being strong,i just go with the flow of my feelings" As i told Eni, you were my confidant and i could  call you for many issues,if not everything, i really have a big problem getting another person who will be ready for my long phone calls where i express my self and get the required support.
I wish you can read this from where you are,
 since you left us, we still have problems sleeping,We visited the Megan Restaurant on sunday, and  still can't say anything constructive. Chiki and Ichi go to the nearby super market with no problem.Chiki is preparing for holiday classes though he says their teacher says students of their school need no holiday classes.Ichi made good megan rice on sunday, he is the Chef of the cuisine. Chiki and Ichi 's weekly menus are so interesting because the put outings, drinks after every meal etc.which make us laugh alot.
Danae is getting to active and cry for any little thing she wants,she crips without any problem and holds the table to stand up, I really wish i had named her Akwen,because she has alot of energy like you. 
We are learning how to shop and even wash okongobong , but we just realise there are many things which you still have to bring from Limbe .
Alice Karen and Ma Kijang came in yesterday from Buea,Makijang still has the bowls you gave her during D's baptism.
How could i forget this one, Eni cut her hair and she looks like Tabeng , i removed all hair on my face and i look like a school boy.I am unable to read, i don't know whether i should forward the exams to the next quarter, but i know i have to do that for you.I finally bought the I Pad ,hope it will help me read more.They also called from the village and the plantain farm is doing well, but for the cassava which is not doing well.
i have to go to Ngyen and see Mamie, cos Dr Muna has to at least visit every month LOL.
what have i not told you, Eh Aunty Aurelia lost her Mother In law and  we hope to  attend the removal in Kumba.
How could i forget to tell you that i cut a tree infront of the house which you loved so much to put carnopies, i am sure you would have asked me to do as i want so that rain wouldn't wet them. Please frogive me for i have no regard for plants. i really feel bad abt that tree because it was supposed to be for x-mas, but i promise to decorate during that X mas month. 
Eni finally came to Nkambe, she says she likes it but even though the roads were good, Nkambe is far.i think she loves it mainly because i am there. She also saw the hospital and likes it.She went to Takijah cattle market and ate so much roasted meat and fried potatoes.We spent 6 hours instead of 4 because she stops all the time to buy food items for our house. I have to grind Tabeng abit LOL
okay will write to you latter, i have to work or try to read
Bayangi Man. 

Antie Maggie, You have left a vacumm in our hearts that no human being can fill, but the memory of your love for the family and that which I enjoyed will forever remain in my heart. I grew up to enjoy not only the closeness of an aunt but that of a big sister and a friend. You were so open to me and gave me a lot of advise. We had become gisting partners and I remember how you will bring me and the kids over to Limbe from time to time while my husband was far away. You refused to be called "grandma" by Daniel because you said you were too young for that. I remember how we all burst out in laughter saying you will some day accept it whether you like it or not. You will give up your bed for us, while you slept on the floor whenever we came over to Limbe. I learnt how to make home-made yugourt, cold slaw, bread toast in egg and much more from you. You wished that I will get married and be a great wife. I am happy and blessed because you lived to see me married as you dreamed. You ran your race and God thought it was time for you to rest from the struggles of daily life. In everything I give thanks for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus concerning you. Rest in Peace sweet Antie.
Maami as you called me.