Maggie Ndasi - Site Memorial Online

My dearest Maggie,
My heart is bleeding. I will never forget our days at mbengwi high school at Palace, eh Meg, what happened? the last time we spoke we discussed as usual about cooking and catering a passion we both share and love so much. Meg remember when my late dad will come to look for me at yours? Only you knew where i was, you will never tell him you will keep our secret. Remember the times you, Agie, Gla and me will sit and chat all night, laugh and laugh , Meg I wish I was in Cameroon, to see you off, but I will always do mind my way. To your children, brothers and sisters, may the lord grant you all the strength to go through this. To pa and mami, let your faith be your strength.
Maggie salut daddy for me I beg. Adieu my friend. Ste.

HOW I WISH THIS WAS ONE DREAM THAT WILL GO AWAY.DIVINE ORDER IS INDEED HARD TO UNDERSTAND.I was told that a plane had crashed in my family in limbe.Thats how fatal,and how big the hole you have left in me.so you will not even see the beautiful kids and husband you prayed so hard for me.
Everytime i thought of going home i could only but immagine a weekend with mummy.
How exciting it will be with cooking ,jisting 
I could hear you saying to me....lindsay so tey you don born three pikin.
I looked forward to jumping into your bed to jist .who will fill me on th things i missed.
After the birth of my baby the thought of what  mummy would  say if she sees me like this   encouraged me to lose weight and go back to the right fit.
you thought me alot about feeling good about myself.
To look good all the time. 
you thought me to always try things and not give up.
you were indeed a big blessing my life ,though the lord has descided to call you i rest assured that you are resting in his bossom.hope to see you someday.

God give us all grace to bear the loss and to continue your good work.

From when I met Hen 8yrs ago, you immediately accepted me as part of

the family and you did all to give us a beautiful wedding. For  the

last three years in your caring, loving, and motherly attitude, you

hosted us.  Who will Al call muu….my or Etily run to when he hears

be…..d.  Who will call me into her room to gist, try on clothes, shoes

etc. who will give me tips on drawing up a menu, who will teach me not

to hold on to earthly things, who will challenge me on tolerance or on

giving, who will drive me to EXSA meetings, who will challenge me on

the advantages of acting the fool or on being selfless? You showed me

all of these!Who will mami Ndasi  liken me to in bull dozing

Mummy you were not a sister in-law to me but a mum, hey … mummy this

is unbelievable, who will feed the whole of Ngyen Mbo at Papa’s

funeral  as he desired? Did you think of them? Ahhhhhhhhh  mummy how

joyful it was singing with you during Uncle Augors wedding and

recently in the great trio as a surprised gift for aunty Rose? The

work is indeed hard and great,we need His strength to succeed. One

thing  comforts me you are in the bosom of our Lord Jesus Christ whom

you loved praising in music. You have directed our being to Him, we

will continue where you stopped and we will succeed because that was

your prayer for us.

Rest in peace!

                       Oli Ndasi

There are not enough words to describe my beloved sister, but I would do my best! She was an individual with such a remarkable love for people, passion for life, beauty, and strength. My sister has always been like a Mom to us – yes and we called her “Mommy”. Mommy was a fighter and an achiever. When she was happy, which was usually the case, her smile and laughter would light up the room. Mommy had a unique ability to make everyone around her to feel loved and important.  Her strength and passion for life, not to mention her relationship with God, will certainly help us pull through this season in our lives.
            Mommy, I will greatly miss you. When I heard the sad news, I dialed your number, hoping that you would answer.  Unfortunately I couldn’t hear your voice- I would never hear your voice again.  I remember in our last conversation, you told me that you will hopefully be coming to the U.S. in August, for my wedding. Little did I know that, it would be our last conversation.  I am so glad that my fiancée had the chance to speak with you, and that you approved of her before the Lord called you home. I feel so lucky to have had you as a big sister, and I firmly believe that you were a gift from God.  We will continue to celebrate your life and do our best to finish what you started, and if Christ tarries I will see you in the Land of Glory. MOMMY, I LOVE YOU.

Din Abam Ndasi (Youngest Brother).

My mother,  my friend.
Honesty all these still seems like a dream
Our last conversation was two days before you passed away
We spoke and laughed  and who knew that was our last conversation.
I asked myself why now? but I'm learning to trust in the divine order
I watched you through the ups and downs in your life
One thing that stood out was the honest smile you kept on your face and your willingness to maintain peace.
Mum loved helping people. She was a nurse by heart. She loved to cook and she loved to dance.
Growing up,
I remember you walking into my room in the middle of the night to kill mosquitoes.
I remember you telling me to follow my passion and do what I love.
I remember you dancing in front of the mirror.
I remember you telling me to hold my brother's hand before crossing the road to go to school.
I remember you spoke your mind  or said it as it is.
I remember you cooking my favorite meal fufu and eru.
I'll miss your drive, risk taking and workaholic spirit
In the mornings, I remember you making up your bed and kneeling down to pray
It was soothing to see your relationship with the lord grow stronger.
I'm blessed to have you as a mother.